The Social
Psychology
of Etiquette
Please Don't Kick The Cat!
A serious, groundbreaking social psychology book that delves into the "WHY" of human behavior. It offers a scientific and practical guide to understanding the profound impact of etiquette on social interaction, building character, and navigating our chaotic world.
12
Chapters
69k+
Words
100%
Real-world
Daily
Application
"A fascinating, much-needed look at the 'why'."
— Dave Aronberg, Esq.
Inside the Book
Social psychology acknowledges the consequences of human behavior on etiquette, including kindness, in our chaotic world. Dr. Pigott discusses the scientific influences of social interactions and norms, and managing positive and negative relationships (both personal and professional).
Written for multiple bookshelf locations, it's an insightful read filled with real-world scenarios where diverse people co-exist. The reader learns how to develop sustainable, meaningful relationships with a broader, psychologically-grounded understanding of interpersonal scenarios focused on how to forge positive outcomes instead of contemplating the "why" after a disastrous result.
Understand the "Why"
Delve into complex behavioral issues and learn why we do what we do in social situations, moving beyond just knives and forks.
Build Relationships
Develop sustainable, meaningful connections and navigate hard conversations with confidence in both personal and professional settings.
Self-Correct
Learn how to forge positive outcomes instead of contemplating the "why" after a disastrous result. A manual for character building.
A Primer for Careers and Daily Life
This book is a great gift for young people, professionals, and those who want to make a good impression and solidify strong relationships. It offers etiquette tips and advice for many situations, including hard conversations.
It's a "must have" to navigate complex social situations – it's your common-sense, everyday book on behavior. We diagnose the interplay between social psychology and etiquette by offering a new approach to good manners coupled with gratitude.
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Self-help and self-improvement strategies
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Techniques for better work-life balance
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Managing toxic behavior and social norms
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Building confidence and self-identity
About the Author
Dr. Melissa Pigott is a highly successful, nationally known social psychologist with a four-decade career, who has published internationally. She is a seasoned speaker, author, and educator.
Read Full BiographySneak Peek
Explore selected excerpts from the book and discover the psychology behind our everyday interactions.
Chapter 01
The Interrelationship Between Social Psychology and Etiquette
"Etiquette exists primarily to guide social interactions, and social psychology is the scientific study of these interactions."
Chapter 04
Interactions with Family and Friends
"Like many important things in life, etiquette and good manners begin at home. Practicing good manners is something we should constantly strive for among the people closest to us."
Chapter 06
Interactions in the Traditional Workplace
"Good manners are crucial to the success of every business because they promote employee morale, enhance workplace cohesiveness, and establish a positive reputation."
Chapter 08
Interactions in Cyberspace
"If you wouldn't say something to someone's face, don't say it, text it, or email it during an online conversation."
What's Your Etiquette Style?
Take this quick quiz to see how you handle everyday social chaos.
Question 1 of 4
When someone cuts in front of you in line, you:
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